Technique : How to give the Ultimate Blow Job

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BJ... Blowy... Bob on a Knob... Fellatio... Give Head... Blumpkin... Lewinski...

Whatever you call it, if you want to know how to give the ultimate blowy keep reading.

Lets set the scene....Turn the lights down, put some music on and have your man sit somewhere comfortable that gives you easy access, throw a cushion on the floor for extra comfort if you’re down there (you never know how long it could take;). You may want to put on a show as we’re giving it our all, so strip down to your bra and knickers, make sure they match (well enough). You could take it a step further and pull out the lingerie, if all else fails wearing nothing is always a winner.

Make sure you have any supplies; water, tissues, lube, ice cubes (the list is endless) ready and waiting. Take control and own it, there is no bigger turn on to a man. Now get to work!

SNAP SHOT

1. Tease;

· Kiss and gently roam hands over backs of arms, neck, bum, backs of knees, lower belly and inner thighs

· Lick and kiss around the groin area

· Play and gently suck on his balls

· Firmly rub the perineum (between the balls and bum)

2. Technique;

· Licking, flicking and circling the head

· Grip base of shaft and play with balls

· Take control – Make eye contact, put on a show and enjoy it

· Talk dirty

· Deep throat not needed – Adopt dual hand and mouth combo

Mix it up, vary the speed and combination

· Ask what they like

· Edging – bring him to the brink and back off to intensify orgasm

· Finishing off, don’t slow down

· Tug on his balls and put pressure on the premium before he comes or a finger up his bum!

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IN DEPTH | Giving the Ultimate Blow Job

1. TEASE

a. Start with some steamy kisses, maybe add a couple of lip bites to get the blood pumping. Start roaming your hands lightly over your man, down the backs of his arms, neck, wrists, back and nipples. Then make you way down to his lower belly and inner thighs and backs of knees.

b. Turn the touch into more of a scratch, read his response to know how hard to do it.

c. Head back up to the groin area and begin to kiss and lick the inner thighs, lower belly and around his cock to build him up.

d. Begin playing with his balls then gently suck them into your mouth one at a time, using your tongue to play with them. Be gentle though and gage his response. Make sure not to twist the balls otherwise your man will be in a whole lot of pain.

e. Whilst doing this, rub and put pressure on the perineum (between balls and bum) another hot spot! Build up the excitement as much as possible before putting his cock into your mouth.

2. TECHNIQUE

a. Go in slowly, start with licking, flicking or circling around the top of the head just under the bulbous part (the frenulum) and the slit, then slowly lick and explore your way from the base up his cock.

b. Use your hands to play with the balls and/or grip the base of the penis whilst jacking him off. Vary the speed and direction by adding a twist every now again. Make sure you have a firm grip at the base with one hand; everyone will like different amounts of pressure so ask.

c. Maintain eye contact with your partner to see what he really likes whilst giving him your best bedroom eyes.

d. Take the opportunity to give him a bit of a show, you can use your free hand to run over your body and squeeze your boobs. Head lower down and start to touch yourself or let him help.

e. Talk dirty!

f. Dual hand and mouth combo (Deep throat imitation!)

Down to business… you’ve gone slow, you’ve licked and circled and teased and he’s getting excited! Now he wants a bit more but you don’t have to go 70’s porn star and deep throat to get the same results;

MOUTH -

• Imagine you are eating an ice cream and its melting, you need to lick and swoop the tongue up and down the cone (shaft) , then give a hard suck to the top and occasionally a lick to the middle (head & slit) with a swirl around the edge of the cone (frenulum) to finish off and then repeat.

• Take him fully into your mouth every now and again and flatten your tongue at the back of his penis on the way down and up whilst sucking hard.

• Make sure you mix it up, cover your teeth (unless he likes that) and vary the angle and position slightly each time.

HAND

• Keep one hand firmly at the base of the cock with easy access to playing with balls and the perineum (between bum and balls), introduce your other hand and start pumping up and down and twist towards the head intermittently whilst licking, swirling and sucking the head.

• Vary the pressure, speed and combination to get him close.

• You may want to use flavoured water based lube to help with this but it’s not necessary.

g. Ask what he likes! Does he want more pressure, suction, hands, and tongue?

h. When he is nearly there, bring him back down, using a technique called ‘edging’. Do this a few times to help build and sustain the intensity of his orgasm. Don’t forget, you can use your hands on his hotspots to help build him back up again so keep fondling his balls, perineum, inner thighs and lower belly and add a bit of pain with your nails.

i. The come shot - Just before he is about to come, TUG on balls whilst adding pressure on the perineum with a rubbing motion to send him flying and seeing stars!

j. If you’re feeling extra saucy (and he’s alright with it;) then you could always stick a finger up his bum! Aim for the mans g-spot about 5 – 10cm from the opening and towards the belly button, it’s a fleshy ball the size of a walnut.

k. Whether he comes in your mouth, over your breast, on your face, don’t slow down!

3. Get creative

Introduce foods that you can lick off like whipped cream or chocolate sauce, be prepared to get messy! Or you could experiment with popping candy, if you put some on your tongue before you put your mouth on him (and vice versa) it will soon spice things up.

To cool things down, drink some cold water or eat some ice cream and save some on your tongue before you lick the shaft. You could always use an ice cube to rub gently along the head and shaft for extra thrill factor. Gage his reaction, some things may be a hit or miss but you will definitely have fun trying!