Can’t Orgasm during Sex? Top 3 Best Positions for Female Orgasm

Surprising research has found that it may not be your partner’s fault that you don’t orgasm during sex. Studies have discovered that if the clitoris moved too far up and away from the vagina opening when you were in the womb then sex alone would not create enough friction to make you come.

The distance from your vagina to your urinary has to be 2.5cm to be able to achieve an orgasm during sex, researches are confident that women with the clitoris even a ½ cm further up would not be able to orgasm without extra stimulation.

70 – 90% of women are unable to achieve an orgasm through sex without external stimulation.

Even if you are one of the lucky ones who can orgasm during sex without any help, it makes sense to choose positions that can easily stimulate the clitoris as well as using sex toys that can enhance and aid your experience and deliver multiple orgasms.

The two key areas to aid orgasm is the clitoris and G-Spot. Here are the best positions to help with stimulating both below.

THE BEST POSITIONS FOR WOMEN TO ORGASM DURING SEX

1. THE EAGLE

(variation on Missionary)

HOW TO :

· Start in a missionary position with you on your back and your man on his knees at the business end

· Bring your legs up and either rest the soles of your feet on his hands or place the backs of your thighs over his forearms. This move allows your hips to be lifted at the perfect angle to hit your G-Spot. You can easily adjust the angle/height of legs to suit you.

· Your man can sit back on his haunches or lean over you.

· Go in slow as this angle can be a fairly deep. Get him to tease you with just the tip of his cock to build you up before going deeper and bringing your back down, repeat to intensify the orgasm.

· Your mans hands are full with this move so if you want to stimulate your clit its down to you, whether you want to do it with your hands or a toy it will help enhance, prolong and hopefully give you multiple orgasms.

· Vary the pace, rhythm and direction, and more importantly get some grinding in a circular or figure of 8 motions to stimulate the clit.

VARIATIONS

· As you build towards your orgasm, either you or your man can firmly press down on your lower stomach, just above the pelvic bone. The pressure reduces the vaginal wall causing friction for you both. Whilst doing this you can also feel his cock rubbing against your hand as an additional turn on. This feels amazing as well as enhancing and intensifying your orgasm.

· Use a pillow or two under the bum to increase the angle; you could always do this with your head over the side of the bed to heighten the experience.

· Put legs over your mans shoulders

2. DOGGY

A favourite for both men and woman, it ticks all the boxes for pleasure, control, depth, variations and view!

HOW TO :

· Start on all fours on the bed, floor , sofa, table……

· Take some time beforehand with some foreplay, get you man to massage and grab your bum and tease and caress your hot spots, as well as reaching around to fondle your boobs and clit.

· He could even throw in a few spanks and hair pulling to get the blood flowing and keep you in the moment. He needs to be careful not to yank on the hair but grab it at the roots whilst pushing your head down and to the side, you can even turn it into a rough head massage for that delicious bite of pain/pleasure combo.

· You can move down to your forearms and stick your bum in the air for not only a great view but to give him the perfect angle to hitting your G. Again adjust your hips to find the most pleasurable angle for you.

· This is a great move for access to you and offers so many angles depending on your preference or time of month. Go as hard and deep or slow and gentle or a combination of them both as you want

· Doggy style also gives you the added stimulation of his balls slapping your clit with each thrust and perfect angle to grind his hips.

· In this position it’s easier for you to play with your clit to add to your pleasure. You can always massage his perineum or balls to increase his enjoyment too while your down there.

· Keep the bum massaging and spanking going throughout for pleasure and as a great way to keep you centered as well as preventing your mind drifting off and onto other mundane things;) He can even add a finger in the bum to really set you off!

Variations

· A personal favorite move is to get your man to lift your bum up with both hands on the outside of your hips and tilt it slightly in towards your head. This is quite an intense angle so go in slow but amazing when you hit the spot!

· You can experiment with leg position in one session or over several. Start in a ‘child’s pose’ with your legs out as far as they can go, this position gives you lots of control and variety. After you’ve given that position a good go start to bring your legs in. The final position is when your legs are together creating a snug fit with a great angle that hits your vaginal wall and G perfectly.

· Ensure you adjust your hips to make sure your G-spot is being hit. The leg position really does make a big difference so have a play around.

· Either have your bum in the air or bring it down in a sitting on your knees much like the ‘child’s pose’ as another option.

This position gives you lots of flexibility and variety for a wild ride, have fun playing around to find what gives you the most pleasure.

3. Cowgirl

This is an intimate position that allows you to control the pace, depth technique and angle.

HOW TO :

· With your partner on his back straddle his hips and either put your knees or feet down while you sit on his groin.

· You don’t have to dive straight in, why not start by rubbing yourself against each other to connect with each other and feel his heat whilst you kiss and build some friction. You could move on to playing with your boobs and clit and putting on a show that will get you both worked up.

· Whether you go in slow and gentle or hard and fast you are in control and can go as deep as you are comfortable with. Experiment with rocking back and forth and grinding in slow circles or a figure of 8 motion to stimulate the clit.

· If you want to bob up and down, why not increase arousal for you both by engaging your PELVIC FLOOR. This feels amazing for both of you and helps to intensify and speed up yours and his O's!

· For the ‘up and down’ technique, try placing your feet and hands on the floor to give you more control, depth and speed. The angle will also change when you lean forward which will hit some delicious hot spots. If you get tired your man can give you a helping hand and hold your bum to guide the rhyme.

· As you are in control of this ride, it leaves your man free to fondle and caress you as well as giving him a banging (ah hum!!) view of your body and eye contact. Get him to massage firmly around the hip joint before moving on to your clit.

Variations

· Lean back or forward to alter the angle and hit the G-Spot. Then increase the pressure on the clit by pressing your pelvis firmly into your mans body.

· Whilst on his lap get him to Sit Up so you are almost nose to nose, this intimate position is deep and offers great stimulation to the clit.

· Reverse Cowgirl is where you turn around, facing his feet. This position requires the same technique as the regular Cowgirl but is a different angle and perfectly rubs your front wall.

· In Reverse Cowgirl, get your partner to begin sitting up behind you and experiment with what position and angle you like best. You will also be able to grind against his stomach for added friction.

Have fun experimenting!